Budgeting Series: Self-Control

by Kelly on May 15, 2009 · 2 comments


This is my final post for my 10-Part Budgeting Series. To preview the previous weeks,  you can click on the topics below to check them out!

Getting Started

What Are Your Financial Goals

Writing Your Budget

Savings & Emergency Funds

College & Retirement Accounts

Insurance & Living Wills

Debt & Getting Rid of It

Children & Money

Stockpiling

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dave-ramsey

We have the fortune of having Dave Ramsey in our church body, which allows us unique opportunities!  This week he came and spoke to our Moms Together group (mommy’s of children 5 and under) about the last fruit of the Spirit,  self-control.

One of the things he said that really stuck with me was that what he talks to people everyday about isn’t anything more than self-control.  It is so true, the biggest obstacle in getting rid of or preventing debt is your own self-control.

Another point he made that I really loved was about Malachi 3:10.   Many mistake the meaning of the Hebrew word “blessing” in this verse for financial or material blessings, it actually means “peace”.  Makes you see it in a whole new light doesn’t it?

What is it about us that thinks the way to happiness and peace is through a fatter wallet?  How about you?

Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the LORD Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it.    – Malachi 3:10

I also really liked his overview of the best use of money – GIVING IT AWAY!  He says don’t just give it away, take your children with you so they can see how it changes others lives.  Let them be a part of the blessings you will receive (the peace :) in giving with a cheerful heart.

In addition to what I liked, below are some snippets from what others in attendance picked up,  that I thought you would like:

  1. My favorite:  If you leave your kids money and no character, they will lose the money.  If you leave your kids character and no money, they will find their way to money.  If you leave them both, you have built an empire.
  2. Impulsiveness- the lack of self control in spending- is folly, and folly is a verb for a fool in action.  Watch out, don’t be a fool!  I believe after this, Dave discussed how “fool” is very derogatory word throughout scripture.
  3. In order to succeed in any area of life (dieting, exercise, financial goals, business goals), self- control is the key.  Self control builds the foundation for success in every area of life.  Dave discussed how the #1 cause of death in America is obesity.  People with a lack of self control seem to attract all kinds of additional problems.  If you have self- control, it provides a firm foundation to eventual financial success.

Thanks Christina & Melinda!

I know there are a lot of Dave Ramsey fans out there.  Whether you were at this event or one of his others, or just have something you want to share, please leave it below.

I hope you have enjoyed this series on Budgeting!


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1 Stephanie May 15, 2009 at 8:24 am

Hi Kelly,

I was wondering if you would share this post on my blog….I just started it and I would love to share this on my site.

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2 vonnie April 3, 2010 at 12:35 am

I am so glad I found this site plus love Dave Ramsey and what he teaches

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